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Best Holiday Secret Most Parents of Strong-Willed Kids Need (Hint: It Starts in the Kitchen)

Best Holiday Secret Most Parents of Strong-Willed Kids Need (Hint: It Starts in the Kitchen)
As winter descends, the nervous systems of strong-willed children often become frazzled, intensifying everyday battles like getting dressed or leaving the house. This heightened state isn't due to naughtiness; it's a biological reaction to the season's lack of daylight, reduced outdoor movement, and increased excitement and demands. Instead of turning to discipline, parents can find solace in nutrient-based solutions. Offering warm and steady nourishment helps stabilize blood sugar, calms the gut-brain axis, and provides a soothing ritual that signals safety to overwrought systems. By focusing on complex carbohydrates, healthy fats, and magnesium-rich foods, parents can transform their child's experience—not by forcing compliance but by nurturing their biology. Discover how these simple dietary shifts can foster adaptability and cooperation, ensuring the holiday season is a time of joy, not stress.
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Sacred Saturday: Solstice Nourishment for the Winter Nervous System

Sacred Saturday: Solstice Nourishment for the Winter Nervous System
Winter isn't just a season to endure—it's an opportunity to embrace nourishment and self-regulation, rooted in ancient wisdom and supported by modern science. As the solstice invites us to slow down, we discover that warming, mineral-rich foods like broths, sourdough, and root vegetables can gently guide our nervous systems into calmness and resilience. By syncing our rhythms with the season's natural demands, rather than battling them, we create space for connection, patience, and clarity. This December, let warmth and nourishment ease the struggle and transform winter into a time of cherished rituals and gentle renewal.
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Sacred Saturday: The Quiet Power of Bridge Builders

Sacred Saturday: The Quiet Power of Bridge Builders
Embark on a profound journey of connection, where the seemingly small moments weave the strongest bonds. Discover the power of bridge-building, an age-old practice revered across cultures, that transcends differences and distance to forge deep-rooted relationships. As modern science confirms, those "non-productive" moments of shared laughter, rituals, and storytelling are far from trivial—they are essential for regulating our nervous systems, enhancing resilience, and igniting a sense of belonging. In a world often preoccupied with productivity, this season invites a shift in focus: nurture the sacredness of connection with tender gestures, from a simple "I love you" to sharing a story. Embrace the art of connection, not as a luxury, but as a fundamental piece of our human experience, anchoring us across time and space.
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Strong-Willed Kids, The Holiday Rush, and One Family’s Big Win

Strong-Willed Kids, The Holiday Rush, and One Family’s Big Win
Imagine the holiday hustle turning into a unexpected standoff with your strong-willed child, where excitement flips to resistance in a heartbeat—sound all too familiar? It's easy to feel caught in the cycle of frustration and failed strategies, but what if there's a gentler way to decode those challenging behaviors and turn tense moments into opportunities for deeper connection? Through simple, mindset-shifting insights, you can learn to navigate the chaos without the battles, focusing instead on what truly builds trust and calm in your family. Picture reclaiming the joy of the season by prioritizing your own regulation first, offering choices that ease the pressure, and watching real, lasting change unfold. This approach might just be the holiday game-changer you've been craving, so dive into the full story and discover how to make your home a haven of peace amid the festivities.
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Winter Wisdom From the North (and Why Your Brain Loves It)

Winter Wisdom From the North (and Why Your Brain Loves It)
Discover the art of surviving winter's gloom through timeless traditions rooted in light, warmth, and togetherness. Delve into how northern cultures instinctively embraced fire rituals, communal gatherings, and slow crafting to transform darkness into a season of coziness and connection. Today, neuroscience validates these practices, revealing how they promote emotional resilience, regulate the nervous system, and elevate mood. Uncover simple rituals to bring this ancient wisdom into your modern life, creating your own version of gezelligheid, the Dutch essence of cozy connectedness. Embrace these practices to find warmth and serene joy amid the winter chill.
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Meet Frederique!

Hi, I’m Fredy Begin. My personal healing journey—for myself and my family—has fueled my mission to help others experience deep, lasting transformation. With decades of professional experience, an enormous toolbox of evidence-based strategies, and a love for laughter, I’ve developed a unique approach that’s equal parts effective, playful, and deeply compassionate.

My Stacking Stones approach brings together neuroscience, attachment theory, expressive therapies, and ancient wisdom to address challenges at every level—mind, body, spirit, and community. This integrative method works especially well for families with strong-willed children and for individuals who’ve tried everything but still feel stuck or are ready to go beyond coping to thrive.

Because of the high demand for this work, I’ve created courses, workshops, and a library of free resources to share what I’ve spent years learning and refining. Healing doesn’t have to feel overwhelming; I make it accessible and fun, so you’ll actually want to take the steps to transform your life.
I believe that when families heal, the world becomes a more peaceful, joyful place—and I want to make that vision a reality. If finances are a barrier to accessing my offerings, reach out to me directly—I’m here to make this work available to everyone.
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