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Sacred Saturday — Light In Winter

Sacred Saturday — Light In Winter
Winter can make everything feel harder—sleep gets weird, mornings feel rude, energy dips for no good reason, and suddenly carbs look like a personality trait. The culprit is often circadian rhythm: an exquisitely light-sensitive internal clock that shapes hormones like cortisol, serotonin, and melatonin—meaning the season can literally shift your mood, focus, and rest. This post explores what’s measurably happening in the body when daylight shrinks, why it can mimic (or intensify) Seasonal Affective patterns, and how modern research echoes ancient Arctic wisdom around firelight, ritual, and “social synchrony.” You’ll also get simple, do-today strategies—morning light, dim nights, warm lighting, and predictable anchors—that can reset your rhythm without adding another overwhelming wellness checklist. If winter has been quietly knocking you off-center, this is the gentle (science-backed) recalibration you didn’t know you needed.
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Sacred Saturday: The Wolf and the Horse

Sacred Saturday: The Wolf and the Horse
Dive into the magical alignment of the Wolf Moon's serene reflection and the Year of the Horse's regulated strength, where ancient wisdom meets modern science to guide us toward true wellness. As winter's stillness invites deep connection and conservation, this celestial moment encourages us to listen to our bodies and communities more attentively, embracing the timeless rhythms nature provides. Unearth how attuned connection, as symbolized by the Wolf Moon, and purposeful, controlled movement, inspired by the Horse, create a harmonious balance vital for our well-being. Learn how to integrate these powerful teachings into daily life, fostering resilience and inner peace by syncing with nature's cycles and attuning to the profound messages within.
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Sacred Saturday: Solstice Nourishment for the Winter Nervous System

Sacred Saturday: Solstice Nourishment for the Winter Nervous System
Winter isn't just a season to endure—it's an opportunity to embrace nourishment and self-regulation, rooted in ancient wisdom and supported by modern science. As the solstice invites us to slow down, we discover that warming, mineral-rich foods like broths, sourdough, and root vegetables can gently guide our nervous systems into calmness and resilience. By syncing our rhythms with the season's natural demands, rather than battling them, we create space for connection, patience, and clarity. This December, let warmth and nourishment ease the struggle and transform winter into a time of cherished rituals and gentle renewal.
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Winter Wisdom From the North (and Why Your Brain Loves It)

Winter Wisdom From the North (and Why Your Brain Loves It)
Discover the art of surviving winter's gloom through timeless traditions rooted in light, warmth, and togetherness. Delve into how northern cultures instinctively embraced fire rituals, communal gatherings, and slow crafting to transform darkness into a season of coziness and connection. Today, neuroscience validates these practices, revealing how they promote emotional resilience, regulate the nervous system, and elevate mood. Uncover simple rituals to bring this ancient wisdom into your modern life, creating your own version of gezelligheid, the Dutch essence of cozy connectedness. Embrace these practices to find warmth and serene joy amid the winter chill.
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The Harvest Within — Honoring What’s Growing and What’s Gone

The Harvest Within — Honoring What’s Growing and What’s Gone
As the warmth of Thanksgiving enveloped a familiar scene of clinking dishes and laughter, an unexpected companion made its presence known—grief intertwined with gratitude. This evocative reflection delves into the poignant experience of emotional dualism, where the richness of joy and the weight of sorrow weave together in life's tapestry. Drawing parallels with ancient Egyptian rituals, the narrative explores how they embraced this dualism, celebrating life and mourning loss simultaneously in their customs and mythology. Modern neuroscience echoes this ancient wisdom, revealing that gratitude and grief are wired to travel together, enabling emotional integration and healing. 
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Meet Frederique!

Hi, I’m Fredy Begin. My personal healing journey—for myself and my family—has fueled my mission to help others experience deep, lasting transformation. With decades of professional experience, an enormous toolbox of evidence-based strategies, and a love for laughter, I’ve developed a unique approach that’s equal parts effective, playful, and deeply compassionate.

My Stacking Stones approach brings together neuroscience, attachment theory, expressive therapies, and ancient wisdom to address challenges at every level—mind, body, spirit, and community. This integrative method works especially well for families with strong-willed children and for individuals who’ve tried everything but still feel stuck or are ready to go beyond coping to thrive.

Because of the high demand for this work, I’ve created courses, workshops, and a library of free resources to share what I’ve spent years learning and refining. Healing doesn’t have to feel overwhelming; I make it accessible and fun, so you’ll actually want to take the steps to transform your life.
I believe that when families heal, the world becomes a more peaceful, joyful place—and I want to make that vision a reality. If finances are a barrier to accessing my offerings, reach out to me directly—I’m here to make this work available to everyone.
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